Noticed it recently and did hurt me a little but then i think that now the response has long been over-due.

Now let me rectify my mistake,here on my own ground! A lost-so-called chum of mine has been very critical about his ex, for moving on after,note after he kind of left her himself. And last i read his blog there was some saga about why the three GOLDEN words have become a cliche,and what a bitch she has been to try to be happy without him! Well i kind of have the athourity to speak on this,and with due respects to him and her,let me begin.

"The problem with guys like you is that you are more interested in updating ur areas of residence and a string of so called friends rather than updating the relationship u have had in hand. And then u play the blame game when u she tries to be happy and yes that so-called Moving on!Because you seem to forget that it takes a lot of input into making anything forever. You had been lost in your own sweet world of wants and needs and friends and fun.How the girl passed her time was of no concern because eh-- we are a busy lot man,right! Big dreams and all, so she didnt quite cut the corner there.

The "three golden words" remain a cliche until you dont value the person you have.Being a dreamer and a romancer in name doesnt justify what you put the partner through.Its kind of selfish,putting up dictates which you urself dont follow. And atleast the 'she' in this case didnt hide her relationship from u or the world,unlike you who played around with all the chics available even though you had her in your life. "

 "   Love is a Phase of life, not Life itself, as i thought it'd be,

                   If not for you, At least for me       "

Love is ,believe me a lot more than words and dreams. It emcompasses trusting and  being trustworthy, giving and unselfish, and truthful -the BIG word. Being diplomatic  and revengful aint the way.Projecting yourself as the Martyr is not the way,though realising the mistakes is a sure shot way to become a man. When you hurt others- it does come back,maybe what you go through now, is that karmic justice!

Quit being a quibbler, faults are to be accepted and mended- not pushed away in corners!